The more familiar you are with how it feels to successfully shift your focus from something negative to a more positive outlook ; the more often you will be able to keep yourself in the good feeling places.
IMPORTANT!
Do not underestimate the value of this habit when it comes to your love relationship!
Try practicing on things that you don’t care too much about: the granny in the fast lane, the unbelievably slow internet connection, the weather.
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Make a point of becoming familiar with your joys and you WILL experience more of them!
How to do this in your love relationship:
If one part of your relationship is displeasing, you know it is time to focus on another part of it.
Trust in the certainty that all is well between you and your beloved and that your relationship is growing and unfolding perfectly.
Feel the magic of optimism. Pessimism and focus-on-what-is-not-wanted yields nothing of any value to the flowering of your romantic relationship.
Soon you will notice that you must be living a charmed life; lights turn green, parking places materialize, you meet the friendliest people…
Oh yeah…AND your mate just can’t stop kissing you!
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